FORGIVENESS BY PRINCESS ADEBOLA PAULINA

FORGIVENESS


 Forgiveness

Forgiveness is gotten from the word Forgive which means to stop feeling angry with someone who has done something to harm, hurt, annoy, or upset you.

To forgive sound simple but its hard to do.

Many people has come asking me, how can I follow peace with all men?
How can I stop hating myself, its hurting me..

How can I Love those who offend me?

Can I ever Forgive him/her like this?

Yes, I have once been in that shoe.

But I have come to realize that, when you live your life without hurting,  Disappointing Anyone, Then you need to check  your life.

Am I really doing anything worthy?


But do you know that,  Hatred, Hurt comes from people you least expected.

That's why you see when people offend you, you say:  "I don't expect this from Him"


Meanwhile, Many people dwell on it dwell on this Disappointment.

They didn't understand that as long as they don't Forgive, they are poisoning themselves.

It is a simple illustration, Taking poison and expecting others to Die, Is it possible?

When you feel hurt, it will hold you back from all you want to become.

But the funniest thing about it is,  the world is full of many ungrateful soul, naughty and annoying.
You will surely come across them daily as you live.
But the best thing to do is treat them with maturity and love.
Every situation is an opportunity to strengthen yourself.
You just have to accept this fact, "This is me, Everyone can't be or behave like me,
So am going to accept them the way they are."

Forgiveness is a fresh start key that unlock the doors of hatred..
But the truth you don't know is, when you Forgive, You're given yourself a gift.
A Gift of 
1. Freedom
2. Peace of mind.
      
     




forgiving an offender over time leads to lower levels of depression and anxiety and higher levels of hope, happiness, lif




e satisfaction, and self-esteem.” Sounds great, right? But perhaps—no, definitely—easier said than done

How do you now Forgive others:

1. Don't Expect too much from people: Pastors/ Guidance/ Coaches/ Mentors  (Whatever you name it) are all human being, they are not angels. Blood Flows through their Veins.
They all have weaknesses,  cut down your Expectations

2. Learn to forgive yourself.
3. Forgive others before they offend you; People are meant to offend you 

  • Understand that forgiving someone is not a sign of weakness, You're not doing them a Favour, You're gifting yourself a Gift 
How can you Forget:

Its simple and straightforward, It is not in your power to forget anything.
But you can let the hurt and pains go, When the memories come afresh, it won't affect you anymore.

Dear Reader,  Bury the Hatchet, Let it go.
Life is too short to hold grudges with someone.
If you offend anyone,  Muster the courage and apologize to that person, Remember, You're doing yourself a favour.
The clock is ticking, Man is ageing, Grave is calling.
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Comments

  1. Fidelity concepts15 May 2020 at 04:17

    Forgiveness is a freedom land

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  2. Tosin Animasahun15 May 2020 at 05:24

    Forgiveness is the key to happiness. More insight

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  3. Unknown15 May 2020 at 13:13

    Yep you are speaking God mind ride on

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  4. Unknown15 May 2020 at 13:13

    Yep you are speaking God mind ride on

    ReplyDelete
  5. Unknown15 May 2020 at 13:13

    Yep you are speaking God mind ride on

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  6. Unknown15 May 2020 at 14:36

    Inspiring!

    Yeah, you've unveiled the crux of the concept - Forgiveness.
    Learning to forgive in advance is pertinent as it creates allowance for the frailty of man. As long as we're still on earth, offences are inevitable.

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